There you are, in the club, at the bar, wherever it might be. You’re having a good time. Maybe it’s not self-amusement deluxe, maybe it’s not massive lording, but you’re having a good time. Smiles abound.
And you spot her. She is HOT. Oh man, you immediately want to introduce your tongue to parts of her.
You’ve already said, “Yes.” mentally to the idea that you and she are going to have a little unclothed adventure, so what do you do?
Go and talk to her, obviously.
Commence chattery. Conversation flows like water. Not because you’re gaming, but because you’re living.
That’s right. No gaming. Gaming died. You don’t game. You live.
But that’s for you. For her….maybe she’s not ready to abandon the elaborate doings of attraction.
SO LET HER.
Let her game you. No, not cause her to qualify. Let her do whatever she does to attract you. Let her flirt and tease, to a point. (That point being the line of cross-vs-do-not-cross). Let her run her game. It will be A+ material.
What’s the point? Why are you doing this? Because you need to let her reach that same conclusion you did. You need to let her reach her own, “Yes.” point.
Present the obvious to her, so that she can say, “Yes.”
